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one week later — another Eve

December 31st, 2008 — 4:10pm

12.24       lone luminary

It seems that one week has passed since my last post. How this happened I’m not sure. I think the combination of food, gatherings, family, and hundreds of tissues has left me in a fog. And I ran out of Puffs Plus this morning. In fact, the only tissue like substance left in the house is half a roll of thin, scratchy toilet paper. More information than you needed perhaps, but you have now a realistic glimpse of my present state.

two Christmas trees

In spite of this virus presently inhabiting my body, I did spend many moments of enjoyment with family and friends this holiday week. My parents were wonderful hosts and J and I departed late Christmas afternoon full in more ways than one. I’m sorry to say that the goose my mother cooked and for which she had such high hopes tasted rather like rubber. And those were the pieces we managed to hack off the bony animal. Let’s just say that Christmas came but the goose did not get fat. To put the disappointment far from our minds, my mother presented us with a lovely steamed date pudding, lemon tarts with homemade lemon curd, and mincemeat tarts. Needless to say, the goodness of these things eclipsed any disappointment over our skinny goose.

12.25 an English Christmas

12.25 homemade lemon curd

On and on our merriment went all through the weekend. And today is New Year’s Eve. It has been a most lazy day sitting by the fire, and gazing out at the snow falling as if it were sifted powdered sugar sent to coat the earth’s crust. We did gobble up some slab bacon, and I had enough ambition to make Pikelets, the recipe I found over at tiny happy yesterday. Quite similar to pancakes, but simpler and delicious with butter and jam. I will definitely add them to my breakfast repertoire.

sugary snow

Tonight: dinner with friends, and toasting the New Year. Cheers!

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catching up

December 25th, 2008 — 12:51am

Nearly a week has flown by and I haven’t really had much chance or motivation for posting.  Holiday festivities, coupled with snowstorms, household duties, and a sudden cold have left me with little extra energy.  And now here it is Christmas Eve, and I’m sitting cuddled up in the basement by the woodstove with my laptop and a snoring J.  Add a sleeping dog to the mix and it would be picture perfect.

Today was spent with friends wrapping presents and catching most of A White Christmas between blowing my nose and considering the rest of my wrapping.  I will say that the holidays have felt less frenzied for me this year.  I decided to cut back and stop the last minute scurrying and impulse hostess gifts that add up quickly.  I made a list and stuck to it (for the most part anyway).

My mother prepared a wonderful feast for Christmas Eve as usual and my stomach is full to say the least.  We are missing my brother who is overseas for the holidays and we wish him well.  Christmas is not the same without him.

Well, it’s off to bed with my Puffs Plus.

But first, a few pictures from my week:

Christmas puzzle

down a snowy dirt road

yum

only crumbs remaining

snow accumulation

peace

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ice and the like

December 18th, 2008 — 11:24pm

“Severe weather,” as so many folks like to describe the various weather occurrences, most often in winter, send pangs of fear up and down many a spine. This includes a great deal of folks who call themselves Mainers. I surely don’t want to point fingers or create rules, but it seems to me that a true Mainer, one who embodies those qualities and characteristics we recognize as vital to a Maine soul, simply accepts precipitation in a multitude of forms. This is not to say that we always rejoice in harsh conditions, but we recognize that life can (and does) continue despite the inches of snow or ice on the road.

ice day!

Like many other Mainers last week, as the freezing rain fell, coating every pine needle and blade of grass, I thought back to the Ice Storm of ’98. Wow, 1998? Over a decade ago? That seems hardly believable. As I sit comfortably on the sofa at my brother’s, basking in woodstove warmth and lantern glow, I remember similar scenes from the two weeks my family survived and thrived without electricity. Lacking artificial light for days on end, one begins to realize a few things. The first is the glory of sunlight. And that one must use it wisely and not squander its generous rays. Our days gained a structure we had not known or needed before. Although tasks took longer, there was something enjoyable in the routines. After a few days it didn’t seem bothersome to carry a candle around, or heat up water on the woodstove to scrub your face. And it didn’t seem too unusual to carry bucketfuls of melted ice to the bathroom to flush the toilet.

I do not want to paint too rosy a picture and thereby misinform you of the drawbacks of the new life forced upon us. Frustration with other family members eventually ran high, given the tight quarters and constant companionship. But all in all, things were placid. Our daytime was spent carving out ice chunks to melt indoors, reading in broad daylight, cooking on the stove, and slipping and sliding our way down the road for walks. Most evenings we ate dinner, played Rook and retired early to bed.

We were among the fortunate. Heat galore, plenty of food and drink, and brimming bookshelves ensured a safe and mostly enjoyable couple of weeks. But those without the essentials found themselves cold and desperate. Our dirt road was impassable and we could only check on and help those within walking distance. Thankfully, most families nearby had either generators or alternative sources of heat to keep warm.

Last Thursday night I slept on the sofa to be nearer the stove and its pleasing glow. Early Friday morning I called work to find that I did not have to go in, and could instead return to slumber. But before my eyelids closed again, I looked outside with awe. The ice accumulation had grown considerably from the night before, and the additional ice mixed with a thin layer of snow coated everything. I walked around in the afternoon awestruck at the layers of ice thick on everything the freezing rain could touch. The pine tree boughs hung scarcely above the ground, weighted down with all the ice.

I had planned to gather friends for a game night, but suspected that risking one’s life for Monopoly or Boggle seemed unlikely (not to mention my warning of the power outage). But I am always happy to be proved wrong and so it was that I welcomed not just one but four friends into my home for a lantern lit game night. Pizza was warmed up on the woodstove, water was boiled for hot cocoa and the ice cream kept cold on the doorstep while we sipped and laughed the evening away. These folks, well, they are true Mainers and I commend them.

lantern lit evening

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holiday gifting

December 11th, 2008 — 3:23pm

This holiday season, more than in past years, I am doing much of my shopping locally, buying from individual artisans when possible, and making some gifts.  And these days, with a resource as incredible as etsy available to everyone with internet access, perusing handmade AND local gifts is hardly a challenge.  I will be posting a few gift/shopping ideas here, but I begin with…

*Family Style*
The River Cottage Family Cookbook by Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall and Fizz Carr, $32.50
The Creative Family by Amanda Soule (a Maine dweller), $10.50 (used)
*Foodies*
Animal, Vegetable, Miracle: A Year of Food Life
by Barbara Kingsolver, $17.95 (used)
In Defense of Food: An Eater’s Manifesto by Michael Pollan (I recently received this as a present from J and can’t wait to read it), $21.95
*Luddites*
The Freedom Manifesto by Tom Hodgkinson, $9.50
What are People For?
by Wendell Berry (a personal favorite), $14.00
*Kids*
My Wonderful Christmas Tree
by Dahlov Ipcar, $16.95
The First Chinook by David Pagel with wood engravings by Rick Allen, $16.95
*Off the Grid*
A Handmade Life by William Coperthwaite (another Mainer), $25.00
The Self-Sufficient Life and how to live it by John Seymour, $30.00
*Typophiles*
Hand Job: A Catalog of Type by Michael Perry, $35.00
Hamilton Wood Type, A HISTORY IN HEADLINES by Bill Moran, Dennis Ichiyama, and Richard Zauft, $19.95
*Etc.*
A Healing Touch edited by Richard Russo with wood engravings by Siri Beckman (both Maine folk!), $15.95
A Year of Mornings: 3191 Miles Apart, photographs by Maria Alexandra Vettese (of port2port press) and Stephanie Congdon Barnes, $19.95

Although I included a link to each book for online purchase, I suggest checking your locally owned bookstore first (find one here).  This will save you added shipping costs and give your local bookstore the business.  Cheers!

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tradition

December 10th, 2008 — 7:01pm

pre-supper snack

It’s pretty amazing how various sights, sounds, smells, and tastes can remind us, sometimes vividly, of the past. When I got home from work tonight, I grabbed a Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup from the package I discovered in the freezer yesterday (thanks Eliot!). Between hungry nibbles I remembered something that had not been called into memory for years. And it has everything to do with tradition.

My mom loves tradition. For her, our home was a vessel in which tradition was created, sometimes tweaked, and always sustained. At least until her children were old enough to either refuse participation or act so callously during the tradition that she called the whole thing off (somehow decorating the Christmas tree went from a gleeful and awe inspiring experience to forced labor and misery when we became teenagers). Now that my brother and I are adults, she has managed to loosen her grip on old traditions and in doing so, has ushered in a new wave of traditions, albeit more flexible ones. Rather than a visit from Old St. Nick on Christmas Eve, we now expect my brother’s visit with “Old St. Jack” to pad the liquor cabinet and wine cellar. Yes, indeed. Time has changed many things.

However, there are certain traditions my brother and I do not want to give up. These include: a fireside Christmas Eve picnic not complete without kielbasa, tins full of m&m’s and Hershey’s Kisses, listening to my father read a story or two (and occasionally dozing off), and the existence of a Christmas tree (having come to grips with our aversion to hanging so many ornaments, my mom trims it all herself before we arrive — more on ornaments to come in a later post).

One holiday tradition that has unfortunately been lost over time, is the visit from my parent’s good friend Emma on the day after Christmas. For me, this was exciting primarily because of the fresh batch of homemade Peanut Butter Balls that she always brought. I suspect they were rationed, but I must have consumed double digits of these within a 24 hour period. It seems an insult to even compare these to Reese’s peanut butter cups, their superiority so evident just by looking. It’s been several years and many Christmases since I saw Emma, but I suspect she still makes her Peanut Butter Balls and maybe someday she’ll share the recipe.

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W. Coperthwaite

December 10th, 2008 — 9:56am

After spending some time over the weekend thumbing through A Handmade Life, I began reading last night, making my way through the foreword and introduction.  I suspect I will really enjoy this book and I plan to add notes and thoughts here as I progress.

p.s.
Aren’t libraries wonderful?

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snowy Sunday

December 9th, 2008 — 7:18pm

schnee!

Midcoast Maine finally welcomed snow on Sunday,
and another thin layer of white frosting today. So nice.

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HAIL THE HORSE

December 7th, 2008 — 12:13pm

First, the credit for my discovery of The Freedom Manifesto goes to a combination of my own curiosity and Michael Tucker, manager of Bowdoin’s bookstore and textbook center. One small broadside and short discussion later, I could hardly keep myself from skipping over to the library. To give you a better handle on the book’s subject matter, I offer the subtitle: How to Free Yourself from Anxiety, Fear, Mortgages, Money, Guilt, Debt, Government, Boredom, Supermarkets, Bills, Melancholy, Pain, Depression, Work, and Waste.

Hodgkinson addresses these areas individually and collectively, as the areas themselves and their accompanying commentary, naturally spill over into one another. He urges his reader to reconsider the capitalist mantras so deeply rooted in the minds of most Westerners. His historical evidence gently reminds us that life, and perhaps life of a higher quality, existed long before Benjamin Franklin and the Industrial Revolution. One of the most important points, brought up in various ways throughout the book, is that up through the Middle Ages, charging interest was considered sinful — preying upon the less fortunate. The very term for this practice is “usury,” though bank representatives seem to know nothing of this more accurate description. I daresay that most Americans can scarcely imagine a world in which they don’t depend upon usury for their “secure” future, or more importantly, one in which they are not victims of usury their whole life through.

The book is certainly not flawless, but I suspect Hodgkinson himself would agree on this point. At the very least it provides ample food for thought and many a hearty chuckle. Part radical, part practical, and part rant, The Freedom Manifesto left me hopeful and itching to read up on the medievals. If you want to start with just a sip of Tom Hodgkinson, head over to The Idler, an online version of his print magazine of the same name. And if you are curious about this post’s title then I suggest you skip on over to the library and check out The Freedom Manifesto.

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the end to a lazy Saturday

December 7th, 2008 — 2:44am

an evening at home with the fire…

cozy evening

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scrabble stories

December 6th, 2008 — 6:24pm

This, I just decided, will be the name for a collection I plan to gather. It will be a collection of stories or poems that use all the words from a completed game of Scrabble. Brilliant. And photos, drawings, sketches, doodles and any other manner of visual representation can be included. Maybe this project will stick and next December I will be binding an edition of carefully printed scrabble stories. Or I will wake up in a couple days and realize that this was rather a silly idea and not exactly original. Only time will tell…
Oh, and audience participation is welcome. Game night anyone?

coffee + scrabble

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