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It’s hard to believe it’s 2010

January 4th, 2010 — 2:00pm

Not to give away my age or anything, but I graduated from high school in the year 2000, and from college in 2004.  So it seems hard to believe 2010 is already in progress.  A decade has passed since high school.  Really?  A decade?  Of course, high school does seem long, long ago (and for that I am thankful) and for that matter college seems distant as well, but somehow it is still surprising to be so far into this century.  But rather than think back over the last 10 years, I’d prefer to look forward.  There are many things to look forward to in this new year and I am going to enjoy it all thoroughly.  I do have goals — not New Year’s resolutions per se, but things I hope to do, see, work on, enjoy, etc.

Here are some pictures from the recent past.  It was a great holiday season and I enjoyed many days of relaxation.  My family did a handmade Christmas which was truly wonderful.  At some point I will post some pictures of the gifts we gave and received.  And I plan to put up a short series of 2009 photo collections.

my winter mantrabell lights & branches* * *the Christmas tie, or the Maxwell tartan12.25.09 :: orange cinnamon breadWhiskey-Soaked Dark Chocolate Bundt Cake.slice of sunshinesnowflakes, close as I could get01/36502/36503/365

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1 week ’til Christmas

December 18th, 2009 — 12:31pm

December always seems to fly past me, leaving me a bit stunned when I wake up on New Year’s Day.  But this year is a bit different.  My family has decided to only give homemade/handmade gifts this year.  This is wonderful in many ways, but particularly because there is no pressure to rush around from store to store desperately trying to find a perfect gift under less than perfect circumstances.  The financial relief is nice too, but mostly it’s the lack of pressure.  I am planning my gifts and I still have things left to make and do, but they are things I can do in my own home, sitting by the fire, enjoying the glow of Christmas lights and music (or watching episodes of Battlestar Galactica…).  And that’s the best way to do it.

the first sign of Christmas in the cabin{1} holiday crafting{2} holiday craftingour little house in the big woodsJ & the treehamburgers & milkshakes, a December classicwindshieldthe glow of winterthe leaves make it for me

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Pete Witham & the Cozmik Zombies

October 30th, 2009 — 10:48am

This week has been light in the sleep department, but for mostly good reasons.  I had a flurry of printing activity this week as I scrambled to get cd sleeves printed up for Pete Witham & the Cozmik Zombies’ cd release party for their new record, Full Tilt.  This was my first experience printing cd sleeves and I really enjoyed the process.  I hope more music related printing is in my future.  As always, the end result was a combination of foresight, happy accidents, physical and time constraints.  But I’m pretty pleased with them.  My last push on Wednesday night to print the back cover was made possible by the following: a bowl of moosemeat stew, a couple slices of bread & butter, one can of Barq’s root beer, half a brownie, encouragement from J, and lots of fabulous tunes that J cranked in the studio.  Cheers!

Cozmik Zombies :: Full TiltCozmik Zombies :: back covercover, up-closeback cover, up-closePete Witham & the Cozmik Zombies :: letterpress printed cd sleeve

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hospital adventures

October 19th, 2009 — 3:00pm

Last week was a blur.  J had surgery on his wrist and that meant general anesthesia…yippee!  Lots of waiting for me, but I had good things to read (I finished My Life in France by Julia Child while I was there) and I snuck out of the hospital and headed down to Standard Baking Co. to procure provisions for myself.  The provisions came in the buttery, flaky form of a ham and cheese croissant and a delectable pain au chocolat, plus a hot cup of coffee to wash it down.  Then we had a quiet, restful weekend at home, which included lovely visitors {armed with gooey cinnamon rolls!} many loads of laundry, house cleaning, movie watching, cooking, meal planning, and heavenly naps.  Just the thing for a couple chilly October days.

10.15.09 :: up early10.15.09 :: {pre-surgery}I snuck away...my perch in the waiting roompost-surgery snooze10.15.09 :: {post-surgery}

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j’s fracture

October 12th, 2009 — 10:18am

J broke his wrist last week.  He has a distal radius fracture on his left hand.  This hand is essential to his livelihood of playing upright and electric bass.  He fell on Monday, we went in for x-rays on Tuesday, found that it was broken and he was referred to Orthopedic Associates in Portland and setup a Friday appointment.  They did another set of x-rays to see how his wrist had changed over the course of three days and were not happy with how it seems to be healing.  After the use of an equalizing surgical traction device, which involved two of J’s fingers being placed in steel finger traps, the OTC did some manipulation and pulling on the wrist just before putting it in a plaster splint.  And in the splint it remains until Wednesday when we go back to Orthopedic Associates.  They took a third round of x-rays after the manipulation to see if the bone position had been much changed, which it had not.  The Nurse Practitioner with whom we met mentioned the possibility of surgery and this certainly spun us into a new frame of mind.  Navigating the seemingly murky waters of the medical community is basically new to us both.  Wednesday we’ll be meeting with the Nurse Practitioner again and a surgeon to consult regarding the possible outcomes for splinting/casting versus surgery.  Wow.  I’m trying to learn as much as I can before Wednesday so that we can at least ask the right questions.

The medical folks keep asking J if he is right handed, to which he hesitantly responds “primarily.”  His left hand is the one he needs for fast and fine motion when playing bass so it’s equally as important as his right.  The OTC callously suggested he consider the tambourine.  J didn’t laugh, but he is handling this all extremely well and we’re doing our best to be positive and hopeful.

Wish J luck. He doesn’t have health insurance.

Below are a couple of J’s x-rays…I was surprised at the difficulty in identifying the problems.  I suppose that’s why there are experts.  If you’re curious, this website shows a normal wrist compared to a broken one with a distal radius fracture.

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whew!

August 20th, 2009 — 3:35pm

Didn’t August just begin?  I can scarcely believe it’s already nearing the end of August.  Summer weather, in the form of hot, sticky days, arrived in Maine last week and has kept a tight grip over all the land.  Today is less of a scorcher resulting in a simply hot, lovely summer day.
Moving and settling seems to have swallowed August whole.  But I am enjoying my new environs (despite some pesky rodents who would like to share a home and food…) and am glad to have a place to truly call home where my stuff is together, in one place (rather than scattered between 3 or 4 locations as the last few years have demanded).
However, this moving and settling business has proven a poor climate in which to take photographs.  My camera has scarcely been touched these last few weeks, but I am looking forward to finding a new rhythm in a new place.  For now, a few shots from earlier this summer will have to suffice.  {the first couple shots are from my mom’s birthday celebration when we took her out to a lovely brunch at Caiola’s in Portland}

07.19 :: birthday brunch07.19 :: the Weston menstrawberries & creamdeckcoffee datewith J & scrabbledinner out with my momhomemade walnut pesto!

A sneak peek into my new home:

the first glimpse...

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the official drink of Summer

July 8th, 2009 — 3:05pm

mint mojito

It’s raining again today (and I’m wearing a sweater and wool socks in July!) but the sun did make an appearance over the weekend. I decided to take it easy over the holiday weekend and relaxed at my parent’s house, enjoying great food and spending time with friends and family.
Weekend highlights included:
~ baking strawberry muffins
~ thrift store shopping
~ sewing project (and a sewing lesson)
~ dinner outdoors on the deck
~ leisurely mornings
~ sunbathing
~ late night guacamole & chip fest
~ popovers and freshly picked strawberries for breakfast
~ a motorcycle ride
~ ice cream sundaes
~ yummy pizza
~ a mint mojito {which I am officially declaring the official drink of Summer}

I was really sorry to miss a friend’s wedding but due to my persistent cough and nose blowing I opted for the restful route. And I had a great time just chilling out.

07.04 :: summer, finallyrefreshmentyup, sunshine is back07.05 :: my mom's popovers!07.05 :: Petrillo'syummy pizza

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dinner & a movie

July 2nd, 2009 — 10:54am

For my birthday J took me to see Away We Go on Tuesday night.  It’s a fun, quirky, and sweet film and we really enjoyed it.  I definitely recommend seeing it if you have the chance.  It was great to see John Krasinski (who plays the character Jim in the TV show The Office) in a film setting with new co-stars.

And my parents drove down last night and took me to a lovely dinner.  The food and drinks were fabulous, as always, and the company superb.  Of course, sunshine would have really made my day but given our stretch of rainy, dreary weather I guess that was too much to ask.  And it’s raining again today…

07.01 :: birthday dinner with my parentslemon dropbroccolini & sweet potato fries07.01 :: dining out

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So much to say…

April 16th, 2009 — 2:27pm

Clearly I have not been a faithful blogger these last few weeks.  Once again, time has slipped away in the blink of an eye and I have not made the time to write in this space.  But here I am, trying to make up for lost time.
Let me begin by telling you that spring is really here, in all its glory.  To back up my words I offer Exhibit A (and if this isn’t proof, then I don’t know what is):
04.13 :: bursting!

Of course, most of you know this by now and have yearned for and embraced this seasonal change right along with me.  But I thought I would offer proof anyway.
In other exciting news, J has just joined Girls Guns & Glory and will be touring around the Northeast, Midwest and South in the coming months.  You can view the band’s schedule here to see if they’ll be playing in your area.  The band happened to have a show in Portland (Maine) at Empire last Friday so I was lucky enough to see him play with them already.

04.10 :: Girls Guns & Glory, Empire, Portland, Maine04.10 :: Shipyard04.10 :: Girls Guns & Glory at Empire

And in case you’re wondering, J is gesturing to the drummer with his pointer finger and not his middle finger in the photo above.  Pictured is Ward Hayden, lead singer and acoustic guitar, Colt Thompson, lead guitar, John Graham, drums, and Maine’s very own Justin Maxwell on upright and electric bass.  The guys sounded great and we had a blast ripping it up on the dance floor.  The band is headed to NYC tonight to play at the Rodeo Bar.
In other music news, J and I (along with his father and step-mother) went to see Greg Brown last week at the Stone Mountain Arts Center in Brownfield, Maine.  I bought tickets back in November for J’s birthday, and the original date back in February was cancelled due to a blizzard and rescheduled for April 9.  This worked out well, in part because it became a celebration of almost exactly two years together for us.  Our first real date was going to see Greg Brown at the Camden Opera House in April of 2007.  Both shows were great, and the Stone Mountain Arts Center is worth the trip and price.  I hope we’ll make it back again.
04.09 :: Stone Mountain Arts Center + 2 years together

I think I’ll sign off with a few photographs from Easter weekend.  J and I drove up to my parents for church and dinner, and as usual my mom prepared a dinner that was just as pleasing to the eye as it was to the belly.  I can take credit only for the maple-glazed parsnip dish (we had our first CSA pickup last weekend!).

04.11 :: waking up on the weekendSearsmont04.12 :: Easter appetizertulips!maple glazed parsnips04.12 :: daffodil cake


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02.10.09 :: melancholy

February 10th, 2009 — 2:24pm

Word of the week: melancholy
1mel·an·choly
Pronunciation: \ˈme-lən-ˌkä-lē\
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural mel·an·chol·ies
Etymology: Middle English malencolie, from Anglo-French, from Late Latin melancholia, from Greek, from melan- + cholē bile
Date: 14th century
1 a: an abnormal state attributed to an excess of black bile and characterized by irascibility or depression b: black bile c: melancholia
2 a: depression of spirits : dejection b: a pensive mood

I daresay that sometimes in deep winter, melancholy can strike.  I have been rather melancholic as of late and am doing my best to embrace it.  I enjoy reading what Tom Hodgkinson says about melancholy in The Freedom Manifesto (go here for an earlier post on this book).  Chapter 17, “In praise of melancholy,” explains:

For guidance on the vexing issue of melancholy, depression, black bile, we must turn to the world expert, renowned scholarly reflector and gentle intellect Robert Burton who, in 1621, wrote that most cheerful and cheering of books, The Anatomy Of Melancholy.

That the book was a big hit should come as no surprise, because it came out during a miserable period in history. Merry England was dead or dying. Burton’s book, 78 pages of the most delightful misery, was published roughly halfway between the Henrician Reformation and the Industrial Revolution, those two major disasters for lovers of life and liberty. The old religious festivals had been banned by Cranmer. Merry-making on Sundays was attacked. The fun was being drained from national life. The book is also almost contemporary with Shakespeare’s study of isolation, Hamlet, and Marlowe’s study of ambition, Dr Faustus.

The meat of Burton’s book is thousands of quotations on the subject of melancholy from classical sources. This would suggest that the Ancient Romans and Greeks suffered from melancholy, too, which doesn’t surprise me, because the Romans, particularly, lived in a rapacious, warlike, exploitative oligarchy, much like Britain and the US today. It may also be true that, aside from external factors, melancholy is just a fact of life. There is no escape. Even the wise, lucky and prosperous, Burton says, suffer from melancholy: deal with it.

Among the causes of melancholy, Burton lists bad diet. Among his solutions is merriment: “In my judgment none so present, none so powerful, none so apposite as a cup of strong drink, mirth, music, and merry company.” He calls music “a roaring-meg against melancholy, to rear and revive the languishing soul”. This is the power of jazz, or rock’n'roll, or dance music.

Today, gone are good company, good cheer and good beer as cures. Melancholy has been professionalised, commodified, industrialised. It has been transformed into a “condition” with a costly chemical cure. These pills make the most gigantic profits for their dealers, the drugs giants. Depression is big business.

No one ever suggests, of course, that the fault for your depression may lie not with you but with the things that you are expected to do in our hyper-competitive, meritocratic, money-based, godless society. However, rather than change yourself, you could change your world. Quitting your job, refusing to vote, not taking pharmaceutical drugs: these are acts not of apathy but of a radical re-engagement with society and with your own self. Once you disengage from the structures that bind you, you find that you begin to recreate a life of self-reliance. And self-reliance, rather than the sticking-plaster method, will help you to come to terms with your melancholy, rather than trying to banish it with drugs.

I think that even simply renaming depression “melancholy” can do a lot to disarm it. Keats, in his Ode On Melancholy, advises not getting wasted (which he calls Lethe) and not taking anti-depressants (which he calls wolfsbane and nightshade). Instead, he suggests going for a walk and gazing at the flowers and recognising that melancholy is a sister to joy and must be embraced.

2.8 :: music in the studio

Amen.  Hmmm…bad diet?  And music as “a roaring-meg against melancholy, to rear and revive the languishing soul”?  Indeed.  This is precisely why J had me jam chords (albeit awkwardly) on his electric guitar on Sunday afternoon, and why he insisted I eat more often.  The winter blues may strike, but I am trying to take the energy and channel it productively — and I use productive loosely.  Creatively might be more appropriate.  Or get out of the house, go see some jazz and have a pint (and if you’re in the Portland, Maine area then consider dropping by One Longfellow Square tonight for some live jazz by The Chameleons).

SS Chameleons

Cheers!


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